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Celebrating Queer History in Arlington, VA

In honor of Dr. Lilli Vincenz, Arlington lesbian activist & therapist. 


Lilli was the first lesbian photographed on a Washington, D.C. picket line for LGBT+ rights, and the first to appear on the cover of a national LGBT+ publication, as well as the first to document pivotal points of our history on film in "Gay and Proud.”


Lilli also ran what might have been the first underground lesbian bar in her living room in Arlington, VA for the entirety of the 1970's called the "Gay Women's Open House" at great risk to her own safety, but for the betterment and community of the gay and sapphic community in Northern Virginia during that time.


Read more about Lilli here.

Lilli's Bar will be a safe, welcoming, inclusive space for sapphic, lesbian, queer, and gender diverse folx who want to build community, experience queer joy, and celebrate our roots.  Allies and all queer affirming folx are welcome to celebrate with us.


How Can You Help? We are beginning to collect donations to help us, through grassroot efforts, bring Lilli's to life in Arlington, VA! You can also support us by following us on social media at @lillis.dmv on Instagram and Facebook!

Lesbian owned by SC Nealy, Arlington lesbian activist and therapist.

Upcoming Events

11/06/2026

Lilli's Bar Presents Queer Sapphic Comedy Night!

7 PM EST

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9 PM EST

Busboys & Poets Shirlington

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11/06/2026

Lilli's Bar Presents Queer Sapphic Comedy Night!

Join Lilli's Bar for our next Pop Up Event at Busboys and Poets Shirlington! Comedian Nicole Dunn (@emotionalllydunn) will host a night of f...

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7 PM EST

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9 PM EST

Busboys & Poets Shirlington

11/13/2026

(Pumpkin) Pie a Drag Queen for Lilli's Bar!

8 PM EST

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10 PM EST

Protest Pizza + Bar, Washington DC

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11/13/2026

(Pumpkin) Pie a Drag Queen for Lilli's Bar!

Want to (pumpkin) pie a drag queen in the face? Come join us for a fun, campy night of drag, comedy, and mess! And free to attend!


RSVP here:...

Event Details

8 PM EST

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10 PM EST

Protest Pizza + Bar, Washington DC

Jan 9, 2027

Tattoo Palooza & Lesbian Arm Wrestling for Lilli's

12 PM EST

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6 PM EST

Port City Brewing, Alexandria, VA

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Jan 9, 2027

Tattoo Palooza & Lesbian Arm Wrestling for Lilli's

Come get a flash tattoo or enter the queer arm wrestling contest! Lesbians and sapphics and gender diverse folx welcome to join! Cis men enc...

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12 PM EST

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6 PM EST

Port City Brewing, Alexandria, VA

Jan 2027

Wundergarten Sapphic Takeover for Lilli's

7 PM EST

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10 PM EST

1101 1st St NE, Washington, DC 2000

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Jan 2027

Wundergarten Sapphic Takeover for Lilli's

Come join us in partnership with Wundergarten to support Lilli's!

7 PM EST

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10 PM EST

1101 1st St NE, Washington, DC 2000

Last Updated 9.1.2026

Current Progress

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Meet the Owner

SC Nealy (they/she)

SC Nealy (they/she pronouns) is a licensed psychotherapist, author of over 35 books, mother, lesbian, and local activist for LGBTQIA2S+ rights throughout Virginia and the DMV. 

Follow SC on Instagram at @scnealy
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